Some people think counsellors are going to judge them, some think it’s because they are broken and need fixing, some seem to think we are going to blame them, or be patronising, or tell them what to do, or make them do something they don’t want to do. Maybe they think they’ve done something wrong, or they have failed, or that because they are struggling, it proves they aren’t enough.

There’s a fear that somehow, counsellors will have access to all their deep, dark, innermost secrets just by chatting with them. If you think this is what counselling is, then you don’t want to come.

Most people search hard to find an answer to the question, how to find a service that offers professional marriage counselling near me. However the fear of revealing the innermost secrets to someone else prevents them from visiting a counsellor. At Life & Relationships Synergy Ltd, we think differently and follow an honest approach. You can visit us without inhibition for premarital counselling or professional marriage counselling services. 

In counselling, people often open themselves up to us and share that they ate a whole packet of biscuits, or stole a few Naira out of mum’s purse, or lied, or slept with their friends’ partner, or gossiped, or abused others, or hate their mother-in-law… things they might have held on to for years. You need to be reassured that it is safe to talk about whatever you have going on.

Well, people often report that they feel calmer, less stressed, sleep better, have improved communication, abetter work/life balance, laugh again, look after themselves more, are kinder to themselves, understand their own needs, make positive changes, learn how to say no, eat/drink less, get their lives and relationships back etc..

As a group of licensed therapists and psychologists who offer relationship counselling services in Nigeria, We do our best to make every client feel comfortable, accepted, valued and understood.those